I write regularly. In my writing I explore a range of topics like Identity, Perspective, Transformation, Conscious Authentic Relating. Writing is a tool for me to observe finer distinctions within these realms, which then supports me in my speaking, training, and coaching.
Most of my writing is done right here though you can see an anthology of my published works and how you can purchase them on this page.
“I absolutely love your writing! I feel such resonance in your words because you write from your heart. It's real and a perspective not often publicly shared... I really appreciate that. I always look forward to your posts and I savour them.”
- Louise Vella
"Your authenticity and willingness to seek to arrive at what I see as mature, generous perspectives is a breath of fresh air. It's nice to have someone write about these topics, give a voice to them, normalise them, and seek to make sense of them (and not overanalyse them either)."
- Tim Longhurst
"When I read your writing I feel a sense of acceptance and possibility. It helps remind me how we each perceive things differently and since we're each on our own journeys growing and evolving, we can deepen in love. It's very special."
- Brett Hunt
This is the prayer that’s in my heart today. I miss Bali a lot and I do feel sad that I’m choosing not to live there right now.
I’ve been called spoiled and childish quite a bit during the past few weeks. Fortunately, I don’t have any charge around that. I know I’m childish. And I know I’m spoiled too. I’m totally fine being both of those things. Like Yoganada, I feel like the Divine Mother has given me everything I’ve ever asked for.
Wiring and rewiring moments like that is quick. I have supported people to transform disabling though patterns such as phobias and traumas with as little as one session – if the person is truly ready and willing to LET IT GO.
I read a blog on Handling Projections by Dane Tomas where he talked about holding projections.
He says: “lovingly accepting that people see you in certain way UNTIL such point as they are ready to see past that projection. You patiently allow them to do what all humans do. It’s a much more beautiful place to come from. It also moves things out of the fear/power/ego dynamic that is present when one person is more famous/rich/successful than another.
The following is a blog post that was featured on Hubud Coworking Space’s blog: There I gave an inspiring talk at Pecha Kucha Night Ubud. I started off asking a crucial question: WHO-ARE-YOU? In this blog post, I was asked to tell my story of change and how my relationship with my-SELF evolved through it. Having a clear idea of who we truly are is key when we are experiencing a transition. Read on and dive a little bit deeper into yourself.
“I married my best friend when we were 22. At the time I thought we’d made a brilliant decision to partner each other for the remainder of our lives. We both agreed: divorce was for people who didn’t know how to communicate and work through their issues constructively so they can keep their promises, and that wasn’t us.
I went to an entrepreneur think tank (an event where a panel of people provide feedback on a business idea/challenge) today at HUBUD and met someone who hadn’t heard of a mindset coach.
She was creating a program to support infoprenuers (entrepreneurs whose product is expertise) to launch and I wondered what support she had in place for the inner work – what to do when fear comes up, and how to support people in transcending it and accessing courage – and she hadn’t thought of that…
When I feel overwhelmed by my vision and all the actions associated with it, I find myself fantasising about retreating to a cave in the mountains so I can meditate all day and just be. I suppose everyone has their own escapist daydream, and mine seems to have an ascetic flavour…
But when I follow this little fantasy, the realisation I arrive at is this: I am missing the sense of complete freedom and lack of responsibility I had before I decided to devote myself to supporting others in enLIGHTening UP.
